A REFERENCE, NOT A GURU
Twelve parenting schools. One reference. The script behind each, named honestly.
See how Authoritative, Gottman, RIE or Hunt-Gather-Parent would handle your actual situation tonight. The school behind every script is named. The evidence tier is visible. No subscription, no accounts, no tracking.
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Same situation. Tap a different school. Watch the script change.
None of the four is the one right answer. The point is to see what your choice involves.
HOW IT WORKS
A reference you can use tonight
1,224 specific situations across ages 0-18 (supermarket meltdown, first smartphone, climbing the tall frame). Search or browse by age band and life domain.
Tap any of the four chips above the script. The script rewrites in place to match how that school would handle it. The tier badge tells you the evidence strength.
Every script is a sentence you can actually say. Not philosophy, not values talk. Words for the moment, with the school named so you know what you are choosing.
THE EVIDENCE FRAMEWORK
Twelve schools, four tiers, no flinching
Tier A is strong evidence. Tier D is anthropological or emerging. Sears is Tier D. Hunt-Gather-Parent is Tier D. We say so openly. The tier is not a verdict, it is a label for what kind of choice you are making, science or values.
Decades of peer-reviewed research, outcomes that hold across cultures. Default lens for parents who want to start where the science is least contested.
Good track records in specific contexts. Less RCT evidence than Tier A, but practitioner-validated and replicated within the domain they target.
Reasoned philosophies with thin RCT support. Not wrong, but pick them because you align with the values, not because the data settles it.
Either novel and under-studied (Polyvagal in parenting), or cross-cultural observation (Hunt-Gather-Parent). Use as a lens, not as a prescription.
WHAT IT IS NOT
The anti-features matter as much as the features
PRIVACY BY ARCHITECTURE
Your child's data never leaves your device. Not because we promise. Because it is technically not possible.
There is no backend. There is no database we operate. There is no analytics endpoint. Your family profile, your diagnostic results, and your situation history are stored in your browser's localStorage and go nowhere. The optional BYOK AI feature calls your own Anthropic or OpenRouter key directly from your browser; no proxy in the middle. The only HTTP requests this app makes are to fetch its own JSON content files. Open the network tab and check.
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1,224 situations across 12 schools, bilingual EN + DE, installable as a PWA, free forever.
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